Do not start with a job ask
Use the first message to earn context, not to force a referral.
Warm Intro Pathfinder
Choose a context clue, a relationship bridge, and a light ask. Get a practical intro route that does not require cold pitching.
Suggested route
Easy yes
Turn a shared clue into a perspective ask
Shared work cluecontext clue
2nd degree bridgerelationship bridge
Perspective askfirst ask
Use a shared work clue to make the ask relevant, then request perspective through a second-degree bridge before mentioning a job.
WarmthMedium-high
ClarityHigh
LiftLight
RiskLow
Short action plan
No forms. No tracking. No saved data. No capture.
Make it specific
A timely clue and one clear question are easier to answer than a generic networking note.
Protect the bridge
Keep the request light so your contact feels helpful, not used.